How I Discovered I Was Autistic as an Adult Woman: A Late-Diagnosis Story
Deborah Kirkland Deborah Kirkland

How I Discovered I Was Autistic as an Adult Woman: A Late-Diagnosis Story

For most of my life, I felt out of sync with the world, struggling with social situations and sensory overload. It wasn’t until my 30s that I considered autism as a possible explanation. This essay chronicles my journey to a late autism diagnosis, uncovering how masking, self-doubt, and the need for acceptance shaped my understanding of myself as a neurodivergent woman.

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Feeling Anxious About Starting Therapy? Here’s What to Expect in Your First Counseling Session
Deborah Kirkland Deborah Kirkland

Feeling Anxious About Starting Therapy? Here’s What to Expect in Your First Counseling Session

Feeling anxious about starting therapy? You're not alone. Many people worry about being judged or unsure of what to expect in their first counseling session. This guide breaks down the process, from the initial intake paperwork to building a treatment plan, helping you feel more confident and prepared to take the first step toward better mental health.

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Understanding ADHD: Beyond Attention Deficits
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Understanding ADHD: Beyond Attention Deficits

ADHD is often misunderstood as just an attention deficit, but it encompasses much more. From time blindness and rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD) to emotional regulation struggles and executive functioning issues, ADHD presents uniquely in each person. This article explores the lesser-known symptoms, such as Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) and how ADHD affects motivation, emotional sensitivity, and daily life. Understanding these complexities is key to providing better support and care for those with ADHD.

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How to Calm a Panic Attack
Deborah Kirkland Deborah Kirkland

How to Calm a Panic Attack

Learn how to calm a panic attack with simple techniques like deep breathing, muscle relaxation, and grounding. Discover how I managed my first panic attack at Disney World's Mission: Space ride and gain practical tips for reducing anxiety in stressful situations.

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